Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping?
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A switch who’s new to topping keeps apologizing when their partner expresses (consensual) pain.
Here’s the question:
I’ve recently discovered my Switch side and Impact Topped for the first time at a kink event recently.
Do you have any tips for not apologizing so much when Impact Play Topping? I know my bottom enjoys impact play, as do I (both giving and receiving). When Topping, I cannot stop apologizing if I see them wince too much or make intensely pained noises, but ask for more.
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