Q&A: Why is My Sub Irritable After a Scene? Is It Drop?
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A Dominant provides the aftercare his submissive wants, but she’s always cranky the day after a scene.
Here’s the question:
My (41m/Dom) and my wife (42f/sub) have been married for four years and discovered our kinky side with each other. Over the past year, we have found that the day after a scene, she is irritable and, in her words, “pissy and crabby.” Her irritability is directly related to how deep into subspace she goes during a scene with deeper subspace leading to a longer period of irritability.
Our aftercare is precisely what she says she needs, with showers, cuddles, and verbal affirmations. Is this a form of subdrop? Is this normal? Is there a way to prevent this in advance?
Links from the episode:
Dealing with Drop for Subs and Doms (podcast episode 39)
Drop (minisode 15)
Drop (minisode 41)
Dom Drop and Aftercare (episode 127)
Subspace (episode 146)
Subspace (minisode 52)
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