Difficult Conversations in D/s Relationships LB071

by Kayla Lords · Published January 20, 2017 · Updated April 1, 2021

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Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 71 and talk about a recent hard conversation they had to have, how it helped, and why these conversations are important in D/s relationships.

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Recently, I had to confess a few concerns and fears I had about our relationship
I worried that I might be wrong and would feel silly.
I worried I might be right and then I’d have to deal with the outcome.
He listened and we didn’t try to “fix” anything in one conversation. We came back to it later after he’d had time to think about things.
At the end, we decided to stick with what worked but promised to make changes if it became necessary.
It’s better to talk about something when it feels small than waiting for it to become a giant issue.
Sometimes our head makes us think things that aren’t true.
We stay silent out of fear – not good.
Both sides need to be able to say how they’re feeling, even if it’s difficult, and even if it upsets the other person.
We got a postcard!