Building Confidence in D/s and Your Kink Identity
This week’s topic came straight from a recent Patreon live stream where we were asked about how to be confident in a power exchange dynamic and within your kink identity. Here are our thoughts....
by Kayla Lords · Published April 12, 2024 · Last modified April 11, 2024
This week’s topic came straight from a recent Patreon live stream where we were asked about how to be confident in a power exchange dynamic and within your kink identity. Here are our thoughts....
30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published June 14, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
Let me let you in on an uncomfortable fact about power exchange, kink, and BDSM: It won’t live up to the fantasy you create in your mind. Like every other part of life, it’s...
BDSM Questions / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published December 2, 2019 · Last modified December 1, 2019
We don’t consider ourselves experts on open relationships or a polyamorous life. We’re constantly navigating it and learning new things. But jealousy is common in all relationships, not just polyamory. Consider it part of...
Most of us use the term “jealousy” as a catch-all for worry, envy, insecurity and other negative feelings in a relationship. So let’s talk about what we mean when we say we’re feeling “jealous”...
Content warning: mentions of abuse, primarily emotional abuse. We don’t go into details, but take care of yourself. If today isn’t the day for you to think about bad relationships and insecure partners, come...
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