Our Experience Using the Obedience App
We’ve spent the past couple of months using the free version of the Obedience app, and now we’re ready to share how we’ve used it and how it’s helped us. Spoiler: We like the...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 8, 2025 · Last modified August 7, 2025
We’ve spent the past couple of months using the free version of the Obedience app, and now we’re ready to share how we’ve used it and how it’s helped us. Spoiler: We like the...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 6, 2025 · Last modified December 20, 2024
A sassy switch has a partner who pushes the boundaries as a brat, and they’re not sure how to handle potential broken rules. Here’s the question: My boyfriend (53m) and I (38 transmasc /...
Not every power exchange relationship needs (or wants!) an element of discipline, punishment, and consequences. But for those who do, there are a lot of things to keep in mind. This week, we’re sharing...
30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published May 17, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
Discipline and punishment are tricky things in power exchange. When you’re new to the lifestyle, you might assume they have to be part of your dynamic. Like everything else in BDSM, they’re optional. As...
by Kayla Lords · Published April 16, 2021 · Last modified April 15, 2021
How have we gone so long without a dedicated episode on positive reinforcement in D/s? We don’t know either, but here we are! This week, we talk about it within our own relationship, how...
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