The Impact of COVID-19 on D/s Relationships
It’s still early days for many of us in terms of working from home, social distancing, and the impact of COVID-19 will have on us as individuals and in our D/s relationships. Consider this...
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Q&A: Not Comfortable Opening Up a Kinky Relationship
Navigating a power exchange relationship is exciting and amazing, but it’s also fraught with what-ifs and a lot to learn. It doesn’t surprise me that kinksters question things in a D/s relationship that they’d...
BDSM Basics: Kinky Scenes
Kinky scenes mean something different to everyone. Sometimes they’re highly planned, very elaborate, need a bit of equipment, and play into a very specific fantasy. And some scenes are much more relaxed and more...
Being Friends First in D/s Relationships
This week’s topic was inspired by a conversation with one of our kinky patrons who decided to focus on friends in the kink community while she’s single. While “friends first” isn’t a requirement for...
Review: Longer Lasting, Thicker Lube from The Butters
Disclosure: We received this product in exchange for an honest review. Also, because we’ve loved the Butters for a very long time, we’re also an affiliate. If you use our coupon code to make...
Getting Back Out on the Kinky Dating Scene After Leaving an Abusive Relationship
Content warning: While Amy doesn’t discuss abuse in detail within the post, the topic clearly touches on it. Take care of yourself first and foremost. Read this when and if you’re up for it....
