Setting a Kinky Scene LB085
This week, we’re answering a listener question with more details than they actually asked for. The original question was about how to set up a scene. In our opinion, a scene is whatever you...
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4 Different Types of Kinky Scenes
Kinky scenes are like labels – they mean something different to everyone. For us, a scene is just how we get kinky together. It could be some kinky fuckery in the bedroom or using...
Navigating a Long Distance D/s Relationship Part 2 LB084
In episode 84, we’re talking about how to make a long distance D/s relationship actually work. What you can do, how you handle the distance, and all the rest that can make LDRs so...
8 Non-Sexual Things You Can Do in Your Long Distance D/s Relationship
When you think of how you connect to your partner from across a distance, are you thinking of the sexy stuff like masturbating together or begging for permission to orgasm? Yeah, that stuff is...
Long Distance D/s Relationships Part 1: In the Beginning LB083
We thought episode 83 would be a discussion about how to handle long distance D/s relationships, but when we realized we spent nearly an hour on communication and figuring out if someone is a...
When Your Kink Identity is Discovered LB082
After hyping it up too much and driving at least a few listeners crazy, here’s episode 82 of Loving BDSM. The one where we reveal what the hell happened – but the title probably...
