What Kind of Dominant Do You Want to Be?
Like every other part of BDSM and D/s, what and who you choose to be as a Dominant is completely up to you. It’s dependent upon a lot of factors but primarily your own...
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To try to write a list of potential “styles” of D/s relationships means that a lot will get missed. Why is that? Because each unique relationship will have it’s own personal style. The style...
5 Things to Keep In Mind When You Play With Wax
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