Conveying Power and Communication with Riding Crops
This is not a post about how to hit with a riding crop. There are tons of resources out there of how to hit with a crop safely or about different kinds of crops....
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How Mental Health Impacts Our D/s Relationship
This week’s episode isn’t a new topic — mental health and BDSM is something we talk about all the time. But this time, we’re going to take a deep dive into our specific D/s...
L’Amour Secret Unboxing and Review
If you’ve been here for a few minutes, you know I looooooove getting kinky fuckery in the mail. Even more when it’s a surprise, and every discovery is fun and exciting. So when L’Amour...
Our Favorite Sex Toys: 2018 Edition
We started it on a whim a few years ago, and we’ve kept the tradition going since. It’s time for our episode on our favorite sex toys and kinky gear that we tried in...
2018 Kinky Fuckery Black Friday and Holiday Deals
The day this blog post goes live is the day before Thanksgiving (and two days before Black Friday). On the day after Thanksgiving, our annual favorite toys of the year round-up podcast episode drops....
Review: Collar and Cuffs from Oxyd Creations
John Brownstone and I are fairly picky about our BDSM gear. We like what we like, and most of what we like is leather. But when Oxyd Creations reached out and asked if we’d...
