Answering Spicy Questions
Spoiler: This episode is about sex, and it’s a TMI episode about the two of us, our sexual fantasies, turn-ons, and more. If that’s more than you want to hear, feel free to skip...
by Kayla Lords · Published November 4, 2022 · Last modified April 22, 2026
Spoiler: This episode is about sex, and it’s a TMI episode about the two of us, our sexual fantasies, turn-ons, and more. If that’s more than you want to hear, feel free to skip...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 28, 2022 · Last modified October 27, 2022
We mentioned something in last week’s episode on people-pleasing — about needing to talk to JB about a stressor Kayla tried to handle alone — and it got us thinking about the things we...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 21, 2022 · Last modified October 20, 2022
People pleasing happens for a lot of reasons, and it manifests in a lot of ways. We’re talking about it this week, specifically as it relates to power exchange and D/s, based (primarily) on...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 14, 2022 · Last modified October 13, 2022
We’ve talked about intimacy before — link below — but this time, a post on Instagram gave me (Kayla) some specific examples of intimacy beyond the obvious. Also, yes, this is a solo episode...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 19, 2022 · Last modified August 25, 2022
This week, we get personal — more than usual — and have a formal check-in of our D/s relationship. We tend to do this on a frequent and casual basis, bringing up concerns or...
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