What We’ve Learned After a Decade Together
Ten years ago from the time we recorded this week’s episode, we were “meeting” each other through blog comments. On December 23, it will be ten years since our first conversation. Next year, we’ll...
by Kayla Lords · Published December 2, 2022 · Last modified December 1, 2022
Ten years ago from the time we recorded this week’s episode, we were “meeting” each other through blog comments. On December 23, it will be ten years since our first conversation. Next year, we’ll...
by Kayla Lords · Published November 4, 2022 · Last modified April 22, 2026
Spoiler: This episode is about sex, and it’s a TMI episode about the two of us, our sexual fantasies, turn-ons, and more. If that’s more than you want to hear, feel free to skip...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 28, 2022 · Last modified October 27, 2022
We mentioned something in last week’s episode on people-pleasing — about needing to talk to JB about a stressor Kayla tried to handle alone — and it got us thinking about the things we...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 21, 2022 · Last modified October 20, 2022
People pleasing happens for a lot of reasons, and it manifests in a lot of ways. We’re talking about it this week, specifically as it relates to power exchange and D/s, based (primarily) on...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 14, 2022 · Last modified October 13, 2022
We’ve talked about intimacy before — link below — but this time, a post on Instagram gave me (Kayla) some specific examples of intimacy beyond the obvious. Also, yes, this is a solo episode...
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