Q&A: Can I Give Up My Kinky Nature to Be With a Vanilla Partner?
We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...
Category: BDSM Questions
Q&A: Why Am I Jealous of My Partner’s Other Relationship?
We don’t consider ourselves experts on open relationships or a polyamorous life. We’re constantly navigating it and learning new things. But jealousy is common in all relationships, not just polyamory. Consider it part of...
Q&A: How Do I Stop Feeling Nervous About Submitting to My Dominant?
For first-time submissives or even those entering a D/s relationship after a break (or a break-up), I think it’s normal to feel nervous. Especially if you’ve had to spend any time of your life...
Q&A: How Do I Tell My Partner I Want a Daddy Dom/little Dynamic?
I often tell the story of how John Brownstone laughed his ass off the first time I asked him if he might be a Daddy Dom. Of course, we figured out that he was...
Q&A: What’s the Difference Between a Little and a Babygirl?
I identify as a babygirl and often discuss being a little as a spectrum. Though I use the term “babygirl” for myself I believe it applies to baby boys, too. I don’t pretend to...
