Kink-Shaming
We’ve mentioned the concept of kink-shaming in many episodes, but we’ve never really focused on it as a topic. So let’s do that now! In this episode: According to Brene Brown, shame grows with...
by Kayla Lords · Published November 12, 2021 · Last modified November 11, 2021
We’ve mentioned the concept of kink-shaming in many episodes, but we’ve never really focused on it as a topic. So let’s do that now! In this episode: According to Brene Brown, shame grows with...
30 Days of D/s / Kink Community
by Kayla Lords · Published August 23, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
We think having some kind of BDSM community as a kinkster is vital. It might be a few friends you talk to only on Twitter or it might be your local munch that you...
We had this idea in 2020 for a “membership drive” in Patreon to help increase our membership, and it was such a success that we’re doing it again this year! Here’s what you need...
BDSM Basics / D/s Relationships / Kink Community
by Kayla Lords · Published February 17, 2020 · Last modified February 15, 2020
“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 17, 2020 · Last modified January 16, 2020
This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community...
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