Consider this a “political” episode but instead of rehashing the news, we’ll offer ways to get involved plus we’ll answer a question we received: can you have a power exchange with someone you disagree...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 23, 2026 · Last modified April 22, 2026
WE’ve said for years that we think friendship needs to be the basis of any power exchange but certainly a long-term relationship. This week we’re talking about why it matters and how to build...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 19, 2026 · Last modified January 16, 2026
Nothing about this question sounded like financial Domination – we read it as someone being an asshole. That being said, sometimes you do spend money to meet up with a partner and/or get kinky....
This week’s topic comes from both a question we received and questions we’ve seen asked on Reddit: newer Doms worried they’ll lose control of themselves and try to dominate people in other parts of...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 12, 2026 · Last modified January 9, 2026
This week, a kinkster asked their exes to remove intimate pictures from Fetlife, and those exes got angry about the situation. This kinkster wonders if their anger was fair or reasonable. Here’s the question:...
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