Category: Episodes

Q&A episode

BDSM Questions / Communication / Episodes

May 27, 2024

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...

episode 397 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Episodes / Submissives

May 24, 2024

Submission With Control Issues

We joke about Kayla’s control issues, but they’re definitely a thing we both have to navigate in our power exchange. In this episode: We joke about Kayla’s control issues all the time. The stereotype...

Q&A episode

D/s Relationships / Episodes

May 20, 2024

Q&A: How Do We Get Our Kink Life Back After Having a Baby?

This week, a submissive is ready to get back to their previous kink life but their partner might not be as ready. Here’s the question: I have a question with no easy answer. I...

episode 396 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Episodes / Kinky Fuckery

May 17, 2024

What Grounds or Centers You in Kink?

Hair pulling inspired this week’s episode – because it was a grounding and/or centering moment in kink. So let’s talk about it. In this episode: Friday night live stream on May 17 starting at...

Q&A episode

D/s Relationships / Dominant / Episodes

May 13, 2024

Q&A: How Do I Help My Dom Act More Commanding?

A submissive needs more commands and strictness from their Dominant to feel the power exchange, but they’re not getting what they need. Here’s the question: My kind sadist seems to be under the impression...