Self Control and Power in Dominance
This week’s topic comes from both a question we received and questions we’ve seen asked on Reddit: newer Doms worried they’ll lose control of themselves and try to dominate people in other parts of...
Category: Dominant
There’s a ridiculous stereotype of Dominants (of any gender) as a lone wolf type. They don’t need help, and they’ll figure it out on their own. We call bullshit on that one.
Everyone can use advice, inspiration, and or just a push in the right direction. New and experienced Dominants — in or out of D/s relationships — are no different. While we try to include both Doms and subs in every conversation we have, these are the posts that geared specifically to a Dominant. They’re meant to help, educate, and when needed, validate you.
Dominants and Communication
We didn’t know where this would go before we started other than saying, “Yes, Doms need to communicate effectively, too.” (Obviously.) JB shares his experiences as a Dom who has struggled to communicate in...
Q&A: Am I an Unreliable Dominant?
This week, a Daddy Dom worries that they aren’t being a good Dom because they promise fuckery at the end of the day and then change their mind. Here’s the question: Am I unreliable...
The Pressures and Privileges of Dominance
With great power comes great responsibility…or something like that. The weight of the responsibility a Dom carries can sometimes feel like pressure, so let’s talk about it. But it’s worth noting that the power...
Q&A: How Can My Dom Become Comfortable Initiating Free Use?
After life got in the way, this kinky couple is ready to get back to their fuckery – including free use – but the Dominant partner isn’t initiating, even after plenty of communication. Here’s...
