Dominants and Communication
We didn’t know where this would go before we started other than saying, “Yes, Doms need to communicate effectively, too.” (Obviously.) JB shares his experiences as a Dom who has struggled to communicate in...
Category: Dominant
There’s a ridiculous stereotype of Dominants (of any gender) as a lone wolf type. They don’t need help, and they’ll figure it out on their own. We call bullshit on that one.
Everyone can use advice, inspiration, and or just a push in the right direction. New and experienced Dominants — in or out of D/s relationships — are no different. While we try to include both Doms and subs in every conversation we have, these are the posts that geared specifically to a Dominant. They’re meant to help, educate, and when needed, validate you.
Q&A: Am I an Unreliable Dominant?
This week, a Daddy Dom worries that they aren’t being a good Dom because they promise fuckery at the end of the day and then change their mind. Here’s the question: Am I unreliable...
The Pressures and Privileges of Dominance
With great power comes great responsibility…or something like that. The weight of the responsibility a Dom carries can sometimes feel like pressure, so let’s talk about it. But it’s worth noting that the power...
Q&A: How Can My Dom Become Comfortable Initiating Free Use?
After life got in the way, this kinky couple is ready to get back to their fuckery – including free use – but the Dominant partner isn’t initiating, even after plenty of communication. Here’s...
Q&A: What If a Dom Doesn’t Always Want to Lead?
We’re willing to bet that this question comes up more than some Dominants are willing to admit. Here’s the full question: What should you do if you’re a dom who doesn’t want to take...
