Category: BDSM Basics

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BDSM Basics / D/s Relationships / Kink Community

February 17, 2020

BDSM Basics: Vetting a New Partner

“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too...

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BDSM Basics / Dominant / Submissives

January 27, 2020

BDSM Basics: BDSM Titles and Labels

Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...

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BDSM Basics / Kinky Fuckery

January 8, 2020

BDSM Basics: 5 Things You Should Know About Erotic Humiliation

Erotic humiliation aka humiliation play isn’t for everyone. It’s a very distinct kink that works well for some and is a major hard limit for others. As with everything we do in BDSM, no...

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BDSM Basics / D/s Relationships

December 16, 2019

BDSM Basics: 5 Things About Power Exchange

Power exchange is the big term we use for Dominance and submission, Master/slave, Caregiver/little, and even top and bottom. The definition is in the phrase: power and control are exchanged between partners with one...

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BDSM Basics / D/s Relationships

November 25, 2019

BDSM Basics: 5 Things About New D/s Relationships

Disclosure: Affiliate links are included in this post. This means that if you make a purchase, we make a small commission which supports the work we do and our caffeine addiction. Being new to...

Category: BDSM Basics

BDSM Basics: Vetting a New Partner

BDSM Basics: BDSM Titles and Labels

BDSM Basics: 5 Things You Should Know About Erotic Humiliation

BDSM Basics: 5 Things About Power Exchange

BDSM Basics: 5 Things About New D/s Relationships

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