BDSM Basics: Vetting a New Partner
“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too...
Category: BDSM Basics
BDSM Basics: BDSM Titles and Labels
Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...
BDSM Basics: 5 Things You Should Know About Erotic Humiliation
Erotic humiliation aka humiliation play isn’t for everyone. It’s a very distinct kink that works well for some and is a major hard limit for others. As with everything we do in BDSM, no...
BDSM Basics: 5 Things About Power Exchange
Power exchange is the big term we use for Dominance and submission, Master/slave, Caregiver/little, and even top and bottom. The definition is in the phrase: power and control are exchanged between partners with one...
BDSM Basics: 5 Things About New D/s Relationships
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