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We’ve been recording podcast episodes since 2015, and things have changed a lot in all these years. So we thought it might be interesting to go back to the earliest episodes, before we had...

Living in a 24/7 D/s relationship isn’t for everyone. The lines between your roles as kinksters and the rest of your life get blurred. That can be complicated for some people, and more than...

Why yes, we are doing Q&A episodes on a semi-regular basis. We’re so glad you noticed! This week, we answered questions on “getting a partner to love you” as well as our most memorable...

No one ever wants to think that their seemingly blissful D/s relationship will end. For some, it won’t. But for others, it definitely will. It’s rare that I say something is better or worse...

In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a very vanilla article on the five types of personal boundaries we all need to set. But, of course, we talk about them in terms of...

Impact play, the act of consensually spanking, striking, or hitting a partner, is one of our top kinks. In our hierarchy of kinks, it comes right after the need for power exchange. So yeah,...

We recently did a longer podcast episode on funishment. For those who want the Tl;dr, here are five tips and things to know about funishment if you’re trying it for the first time. A...

Subspace, for some people, is the pinnacle of a kink scene. It’s the ultimate sign of a mind-blowing (or mind-altering) experience. And while subspace can be an amazing moment for many people, it’s not...

We spend a lot of time talking about what goes wrong in a power exchange relationship and what to watch out for. This week, we’re talking about the good stuff, green flags that indicate...

We’ve talked a LOT about subfrenzy around here. For good reason: when in the throes of it, submissives can put themselves in dangerous situations or misread reality. Sometimes it’s harmless, and a submissive is...