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We’ve mentioned the concept of kink-shaming in many episodes, but we’ve never really focused on it as a topic. So let’s do that now! In this episode: According to Brene Brown, shame grows with...

There are as many reasons to hire a professional dominant as there are willing clients. Maybe you want to try kink outside of an established relationship. Maybe you only trust the professionals. Or maybe...

Truthfully, there are as many ways to be a submissive as there are submissives in the world. But in trying to define submission, we broke it down into three ideas. These are the broad...

We’re fairly set in our ways at this point in life. We know what we like, and we tend to stick with it. It probably has something to do with how routine-driven we are,...

We came across a fascinating article on BDSM, meditation, and mindfulness, so we decided to talk about it! In this episode: Cara Dunkley, a clinical psychologist from the Sexual Health Laboratory at the University...

Yes, most of us know to consider the risks of our BDSM fun. Yes, most of us talk about safety or at least think about it on some level. Unfortunately, though, not everyone prepares...

A lot of parents worry that they can’t be into kink because they’ve got young kids or curious kids or kids at all. We fundamentally disagree with that idea. Are there precautions to take...

There’s a lot that goes into establishing the routine and flow of your power exchange. Mindset. Desires. Limits and boundaries. And yes, habits. To do something different or new, we have to change old...

We’re finally back with more minisodes, and we’re comin’ in hot for this one. Let’s talk about anal training! Not every power exchange engages in it and anal isn’t automatically kinky for everyone. But...

In power exchange, there tend to be two sides to what people do. There’s the sexy, kinky fuckery, fun, and then there are the tasks, roles, assignments, rules, protocols, and rituals. Sometimes, those two...