Minisode 32: Asking Your Dominant for What You Want
A common struggle of many submissives is learning how to ask for what they need and want. It’s especially hard when you believe that a Dominant is always in charge and will decide what’s...
by Kayla Lords · Published September 7, 2021 · Last modified August 30, 2021
A common struggle of many submissives is learning how to ask for what they need and want. It’s especially hard when you believe that a Dominant is always in charge and will decide what’s...
30 Days of D/s / Kinky Fuckery
by Kayla Lords · Published September 6, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
Beyond “one of our [JB and Kayla] favorite ways to play with kink,” orgasm control is exactly as labeled: yielding control of one’s orgasms to someone else. In power exchange this often looks like...
by Kayla Lords · Published September 3, 2021 · Last modified September 2, 2021
We’ve mentioned this topic so many times in the past, but we’re finally talking about it: the importance of vulnerability in power exchange. Our definition and view of vulnerability comes from Brene Brown’s talks,...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 31, 2021 · Last modified August 30, 2021
In a new D/s relationship? Feel a bit overwhelmed and not sure what to do or where to begin? Here are a few tips to keep in mind as you navigate this new path...
30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published August 30, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
What is power exchange really all about? Ultimately, it’s about the exchange of power between partners. One person holds a level of control. The other person cedes control to their partner. Within that definition,...
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