Minisode 33: Face Slapping
In this week’s minisode, we’re discussing a favorite kink of ours: face slapping! If you’re new to it and want to explore with a partner, these are a few quick tips to keep in...
Author: Kayla Lords
What Sexual Availability Means in Our Power Exchange | 30 Days of D/s
Sexual availability — the idea that a submissive partner can be fucked at “any” time by their Dominant — isn’t something that everyone wants. Even if sex is part of their D/s. As with...
Minisode 32: Asking Your Dominant for What You Want
A common struggle of many submissives is learning how to ask for what they need and want. It’s especially hard when you believe that a Dominant is always in charge and will decide what’s...
What is Orgasm Control? | 30 Days of D/s
Beyond “one of our [JB and Kayla] favorite ways to play with kink,” orgasm control is exactly as labeled: yielding control of one’s orgasms to someone else. In power exchange this often looks like...
Vulnerability and Power Exchange
We’ve mentioned this topic so many times in the past, but we’re finally talking about it: the importance of vulnerability in power exchange. Our definition and view of vulnerability comes from Brene Brown’s talks,...
