Q&A: When is the Right Time to Meet in Real Life?
A kinkster wants to know when the right time is to take things from dating apps or Fetlife to in person. Here’s the question: How do I know when to move from a dating...
A kinkster wants to know when the right time is to take things from dating apps or Fetlife to in person. Here’s the question: How do I know when to move from a dating...
by Kayla Lords · Published July 19, 2024 · Last modified April 22, 2026
This week, we’re answering several “cute and spicy” relationship questions. (UPDATE: We no longer endorse TJ.) In this episode: There’s still time to sign up for Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey! We’ve added new products...
A submissive has gone through a lot with their Dominant partner with consent violations, a broken D/s agreement, and just being made to feel awful. And they want to know if it’s possible to...
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by Kayla Lords · Published July 12, 2024 · Last modified July 11, 2024
A moment when Kayla admitted wrongdoing has us thinking about the concept of “radical honesty” which potentially has a deeper meaning for kinksters in general. In this episode Register for the free and online...
A submissive who was once the Dominant in their power exchange wants to add their Dom energy back to the dynamic but isn’t sure how to talk to their partner about it. Here’s the...
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