Kinky Titles Are Different for All Of Us
When you first figured out whether you were Dominant, submissive, or both (or none of the above), did you worry about what your title was? Did it matter to you? What about when you...
Author: Kayla Lords
Aftercare LB095
This week for episode 95, the topic is aftercare – what it is, how to offer it, and how it’s different for everyone. In this episode: What is aftercare? How do you do it?...
Aftercare: Finding What Works For You
When it comes to kink, BDSM, D/s, and sex in general, most of us are very concerned with doing things the “right” way. For some it’s out of fear of harming another person or...
Using Positive Reinforcement LB094
This week, we’re back to normal for episode 94, and we’re discussing something that doesn’t get a lot of attention – positive reinforcement. Punishment gets all the glory but positive reinforcement is a kinder,...
3 Ways to Use Positive Reinforcement in Your D/s Relationship
Punishment and discipline get a fair bit of attention in both D/s relationships as well as in BDSM. Scratch the surface of BDSM, and you’ll find plenty of arguments that discipline is better than...
