Author: Kayla Lords

Consent is necessary for sexual contact but also in the non-sexual moments in life 1

Non-Sexual Moments of Consent

[Content warning: We allude to or directly mention sexual assault, violence, and other situations that occur when consent is not given or gained. We do not describe any specific acts. Protect yourself as you...

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Product Review: BDSM Journal

For many people, myself included, writing down our thoughts is a way to not only process them but also to get them out of our head. It gets loud in a crowded and sometimes...

podcast episode on shifting kinks and desires as well as plans for 2018 0

Shifts and Changes in Kinks and Desires LB114

We’re ba-aaaack! Did you miss us? We missed you! Episode 114 is technically two small episodes in one – the first half is about how our kinks, desires, and even identities can shift and...

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Survey Results and Plans for 2018

In what was definitely a spur-of-the-moment decision, we put out a survey at the end of 2017 to help us figure out what to do for 2018. We wanted to know if our ideas...

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Anal Sex Basics and Beyond

When you come back from a vacation what’s the first thing you’re ready to talk about? If it’s “anal sex” then you’re living your best life which means I must be, too. We’re in...