Expectations in D/s Relationships LB117

by Kayla Lords · Published February 2, 2018 · Updated February 10, 2019

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Twitter makes us think (yes, you read that right) and this week, it made us think about the expectations we have in new and existing D/s relationships.

In this episode:

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Some expectations are good.
Some are negative.
The only way to not have expectations is to learn not to have them. It’s normal to expect certain things.
You can get your hopes up and then be disappointed.
Some expectations can lead to irrational anger at the other person because they weren’t who or what you decided they should be.
Trying to live up to someone else’s expectations can lead to problems.