Author: Kayla Lords

Share Our Shit Saturday 0

Showing Kinky Love Issue 4

Since it’s been so long since we participated in Share Our Shit Saturday or SOSS (ugh, and we feel so freaking bad about that!), a little reminder: Huge parts of the internet hate sex/kink/BDSM/relationship...

A different side of consent 3

Consent in Every Aspect of Life LB115

Consent is as important as it comes in BDSM and kink. We’ve talked about it before. But with the wider conversation in society right now, we thought it was important to discuss from a...

Consent is necessary for sexual contact but also in the non-sexual moments in life 1

Non-Sexual Moments of Consent

[Content warning: We allude to or directly mention sexual assault, violence, and other situations that occur when consent is not given or gained. We do not describe any specific acts. Protect yourself as you...

Video review of a BDSM journal 0

Product Review: BDSM Journal

For many people, myself included, writing down our thoughts is a way to not only process them but also to get them out of our head. It gets loud in a crowded and sometimes...

podcast episode on shifting kinks and desires as well as plans for 2018 0

Shifts and Changes in Kinks and Desires LB114

We’re ba-aaaack! Did you miss us? We missed you! Episode 114 is technically two small episodes in one – the first half is about how our kinks, desires, and even identities can shift and...