Author: Kayla Lords
Q&A: What Do I Do as a Newly Single But Inexperienced Sub?
A submissive was introduced to BDSM by a former partner, but their relationship ended before any kinky exploration. Here’s the question: I met a Dom by accident on Tinder. He suggested I look into...
How to Be Consistent in D/s | Making D/s Work in the Real World
To us, the best way to be consistent in your power exchange – as a Dom or sub individually and together – is with a routine. In this episode, we’ll talk about the factors...
Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping?
A switch who’s new to topping keeps apologizing when their partner expresses (consensual) pain. Here’s the question: I’ve recently discovered my Switch side and Impact Topped for the first time at a kink event...
D/s When You Take Care of Others | Making D/s Work in the Real World
Whether you’re a parent (now or in the future) or you are a caregiver for an adult in your life (now or in the future), it’s going to impact your power exchange. This week,...



