How Our D/s Negotiations Have Changed Over Time

by Kayla Lords · Published May 12, 2023 · Updated May 11, 2023

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We’re hitting a lot of milestones after 10 years in a D/s relationship. One we didn’t expect is that how we’re negotiating parts of our dynamic has changed. Here’s what that looks like for us now.

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Content warning: we will be touching on weight loss, nutrition, and body image. This isn’t the main focus of today’s topic, but we want to give fair warning in case it’s something you need to avoid for any reason. Feel free to nope out of this one!
We’ve shared our negotiation methods in the past. Episode 14 is an example of us negotiating something. Ironically it’s the same damn thing as it was back then, lol.
How things are different this time
- Considering JB’s mental health
- Knowing what has and hasn’t worked in the past
- Being aware of Kayla’s triggers and struggles
- Being more realistic about what we’re both capable of and willing to do