What It’s Like to Be Poly and a 24/7 Dominant LB139

by Kayla Lords · Published July 27, 2018 · Updated February 10, 2019

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Thanks to our amazing friend, Professor Sex, for suggesting this week’s topic: a Dom’s take on navigating non-monogamy while maintaining a 24/7 D/s relationship. We identify as poly, and just as with everything else, it exists on a spectrum. This is our perspective.

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This topic was requested by our friend Professor Sex. She asked us to discuss a Dom’s take on navigating non-monogamy while maintaining a 24/7 D/s relationship.
What does non-monogamy mean? It’s an umbrella term that includes polyamory but also other relationship types like swinging and open relationships.
We consider ourselves poly even if it’s only happening on one side — for right now — because of our emotional connection to everyone. Even if Kayla’s not strictly involved, she cares about JB’s partners and wants their needs fulfilled, too.
Kayla wrote about her perspective of what it’s like to be a 24/7 submissive with a polyamorous Dominant.
Challenges and things to adjust to:
- Juggling multiple needs
- Making sure no one feels neglected
- Not being stretched too thin
Each relationship is different and fulfills different needs.