Secrets in a D/s Relationship LB131

by Kayla Lords · Published May 25, 2018 · Updated July 12, 2021

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When we put out the call for topic suggestions a few weeks ago, Chloe Dare asked us to talk about whether you can have secrets in a D/s relationship. It’s a good question, and, as with all things, there’s no single answer that will work for everyone or every situation or secret.

In this episode:

Thanks to ChloeDare for the topic suggestion
Define what you mean by “secret”
Look at the intent — is the secret to deceive or to create boundaries
Trust and comfort matters a lot in sharing private, uncomfortable, and other information
Be careful of the secrets you keep. Not sharing certain information with a partner could lead to problems in a scene or in your relationship.