Equality and Balance in D/s Relationships LB102

by Kayla Lords · Published October 6, 2017 · Updated February 10, 2019

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In episode 102, we’re talking about the idea of equality in a D/s relationship. We each come at this in different, but not opposite ways. Are the people in a D/s relationship equal or should they have balance? Or should it be a combination of both? We don’t claim to have all the answers but we do have plenty of thoughts.

In this episode:

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Are D/s relationships equal?
Should we call it equality or balance?
Why balance matters (according to Kayla)
What equal or balanced looks like in your D/s relationship is unique to you
Both D and s should get something positive from the exchange – call it balance or equality or whatever you’d like
When a relationship is no longer equal or balanced, you have to talk about it. A small change might be enough or it may be time for something more drastic.