Understanding Bad Tapes in Your D/s Relationship LB101

by Kayla Lords · Published September 29, 2017 · Updated February 10, 2019

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This week we’re talking about something we’ve mentioned in dozens of episodes but never really focused on before – understanding bad tapes (yours and your partner’s) and how they impact your life and your relationships. We also talk about to deal with bad tapes and ideas to help overcome them.

In this episode:

Our 100 episode giveaway is still going on – sponsored by Godemiche!
Kayla has a random lube giveaway on her website through October 12, 2017
Kinky Book Club is reading The Siren by Tiffany Reisz in October
The next submissive meeting – live-streamed and available for Kinky Fuckery members – is September 30, 2017 at 8pm eastern
What are bad tapes?
Figuring out your bad tapes
Talking about them with a partner
Be careful about “diagnosing” your partner with bad tapes
Bad tapes can impact who you choose as a partner
Understanding how bad tapes affect your relationship
Communicating about your bad tapes – and your partners
How to work through them together
Seek professional help for bad tapes or the situations that created them that are severe or overwhelming