Topping from the Bottom LB090
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We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is, what it isn’t, and what to do about it.
In this episode:
- Kayla’s books on Smashwords are half off with coupon code SSW50 through the end of July
- What is topping from the bottom?
- What it isn’t
- How people feel about the concept
- Before you diagnose topping from the bottom think about why it might be happening
- Lack of trust or fear could be the cause
- Some people want power taken away from them, and it can appear to be topping from the bottom
- If a Dominant feels out of control, the sub may be topping from the bottom
- What to do about it? The answer is always to communicate. Only at that point can you decide what the next step is.
- Brats, smartass masochists, and sass – is any of this topping from the bottom? Not necessarily.
Links from the show:
Buy Kayla’s Books on Smashwords – use code SSW50 thru 7/31/17
6 Things that Aren’t Topping from the Bottom
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