Dealing with Low Libido in Our D/s Relationship
This isn’t exactly a new topic, but its one we’re finally giving its own episode — how can sex be part of our dynamic when one or both of us don’t want sex? We...
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Minisode 13: Submissive Red Flags
We’re baaaa-aaaaack with minisodes — shorter (for us) episodes to give you quick tips, information, and our thoughts on a bite-size BDSM topic. In many cases we’ve already talked about these in a longer...
How We Feel About BDSM Titles and Labels | 30 Days of D/s
We’ve had a few things to say about BDSM titles and labels over the years — because for many, finding the “right” word is important. But that sense of importance can make the process...
Pausing Your D/s Relationship
This week’s episode was inspired by a question we received from a listener on how to handle your D/s relationship being on a break or pause. We share our experiences and our thoughts on...
What is Submission? | 30 Days of D/s
We’re back with another post taken from our 30 Days of D/s program to answer another big question: What is submission? Much like the question on dominance, defining submission is inherently personal, and it...
Positive Reinforcement
How have we gone so long without a dedicated episode on positive reinforcement in D/s? We don’t know either, but here we are! This week, we talk about it within our own relationship, how...
