Basic BDSM Sexting Guide
Sexting can be a lot more fun when it’s served with a side of kink. If you’re nervous about getting started exchanging some kinky sexts, don’t be. Below is a basic guide for getting...
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WHAT DO WE DO ?
We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!
WHO ARE WE ?
We are John Brownstone (the Dom) and Kayla Lords (the sub), a married D/s couple, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
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Answering BDSM Questions from Reddit
It’s not new, and it’s been done before, but never by us! We took inspiration from other podcasts who give their thoughts on relationship questions on Reddit but with a twist. We’re responding to...
Minisode 17: Vetting a New Partner
We won’t always be in the time of a plague, and even though we are, meeting potential partners online continues to be very common. Before you get into a relationship or decide to play...
Minisode 16: Put This in Your BDSM Contract
BDSM contracts are NOT required in power exchange but for those who would prefer to have one, there are a few things that you’ll want to include in it. You can add plenty of...
Understanding Discipline and Punishment | 30 Days of D/s
Discipline and punishment are tricky things in power exchange. When you’re new to the lifestyle, you might assume they have to be part of your dynamic. Like everything else in BDSM, they’re optional. As...
What We Believe to Be True About BDSM
Could we encompass every belief or philosophy we have about BDSM in one episode? No way. And if you’ve listened to any past episodes you already have a clear idea of what we think....
