2024 Patreon Membership Drive: Be Part of the Proud Cricket Community!
In what has become an annual tradition, it’s time for us to convince you that we’re cool kids to hang out with for more than just a podcast episode each week. We say it...
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WHAT DO WE DO ?
We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!
WHO ARE WE ?
We are John Brownstone (the Dom) and Kayla Lords (the sub), a married D/s couple, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
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Our 2024 Kinky Goals and Plans
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