Listener Questions Part 2 LB088
This week, we answer more questions from listeners and ramble – because that’s what we do. In this episode: This week’s sponsor is Ecstatic Relaxation by Vin Charles This week’s question is from a...
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This week, we answer more questions from listeners and ramble – because that’s what we do. In this episode: This week’s sponsor is Ecstatic Relaxation by Vin Charles This week’s question is from a...
Dear Kinkster-I-Respect, My partner doesn’t like this/loves this/wishes for that. I think he’s right/wrong/weird. How do I make him like what I like? What do I do if he hates my kinks? Will I...
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This week, we’re answering a listener question with more details than they actually asked for. The original question was about how to set up a scene. In our opinion, a scene is whatever you...