When Your Kink Identity is Discovered LB082

by Kayla Lords · Published May 12, 2017 · Updated February 10, 2019

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After hyping it up too much and driving at least a few listeners crazy, here’s episode 82 of Loving BDSM. The one where we reveal what the hell happened – but the title probably says it all. *And at one point I tried to do math and said “26 years” and I meant “36 years.” Ugh, math.*

In this episode:

John Brownstone’s identity was found out.
We tried to remain calm.
Both of us understood the real, vanilla consequences of it.
We refused to live under a potential threat we’d never see coming.
We’ve reached out to other kinksters who had gone through something similar.
I outed myself to my mom and will to the rest of my family because he shouldn’t be the only one who’s out.
It’s freeing but scary.
Life will be different
Being “out” as a kinkster isn’t for everyone. There are real and inherent consequences for it. I am sometimes still concerned about my own situation.