We receive a lot of questions from submissives, Dominants, and other kinksters who want to know if something is normal or how to do something in their D/s relationship. For years we answered these questions privately, but now we answer them in blog posts and podcast episodes. (All questions remain anonymous with identifying details removed.)
If you have a question about D/s relationships, BDSM, or kink, someone else has likely wondered the same thing. Use this area to find answers to your burning questions. If you have a question you’d like us to answer, contact us here.
This kinkster loves what they have with their boyfriend, but they’ve also discovered new desires that feel opposed to who they think they are. Here’s the question: I’m a poly woman with two long-term...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 3, 2025 · Last modified October 2, 2025
This week, we’re answering questions you asked us over on IG at that handle Kayla hates. In this episode: Our Wednesday livestream will be at 3pm ET starting next week. This week’s trans-affirming care...
by Kayla Lords · Published September 26, 2025 · Last modified September 25, 2025
The world is on fire, so let’s take a break with a BDSM Reddit episode! In this episode: We’re sharing trans-affirming resources each week because we can’t be the only ones who need this...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 29, 2025 · Last modified August 28, 2025
After multiple weeks locked out of our own email inbox, we’re finally back in and celebrating by answering the questions that were waiting for us just like we would for our Monday Q&A episodes...
by Kayla Lords · Published August 22, 2025 · Last modified August 21, 2025
This week, we’re responding to questions and situations from the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: There’s still time to enter the podcast anniversary giveaway. Can a Dom “take away” a safeword? My...
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