Category: BDSM Questions

We receive a lot of questions from submissives, Dominants, and other kinksters who want to know if something is normal or how to do something in their D/s relationship. For years we answered these questions privately, but now we answer them in blog posts and podcast episodes. (All questions remain anonymous with identifying details removed.)

If you have a question about D/s relationships, BDSM, or kink, someone else has likely wondered the same thing. Use this area to find answers to your burning questions. If you have a question you’d like us to answer, contact us here.

episode 456 of the Loving BDSM podcast; this episode is a kinky Q&A 0

Kinky Q&A

This week, we’re answering questions you asked us over on IG at that handle Kayla hates. In this episode: Our Wednesday livestream will be at 3pm ET starting next week. This week’s trans-affirming care...

episode 455 of the Loving BDSM podcast is a BDSM Reddit response episode 0

BDSM Reddit Response

The world is on fire, so let’s take a break with a BDSM Reddit episode! In this episode: We’re sharing trans-affirming resources each week because we can’t be the only ones who need this...

episode 451 of the Loving BDSM podcast is a BDSM Reddit response episode 0

BDSM Reddit Response

This week, we’re responding to questions and situations from the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: There’s still time to enter the podcast anniversary giveaway. Can a Dom “take away” a safeword? My...