Ethics and Responsibilities in High-Risk Kink Play
All kink carries some level of risk but certain activities are known to be genuinely dangerous. Should kinksters who engage in these scenes – with full consent from both parties – be “allowed” to...
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Here you’ll find all of our blog posts on navigating a kink community and finding a path forward, friends, and the information you seek.
All kink carries some level of risk but certain activities are known to be genuinely dangerous. Should kinksters who engage in these scenes – with full consent from both parties – be “allowed” to...
Another new year, another Patreon membership drive. And this year is a special one because in August, we’re celebrating our 10th podcast anniversary (a podiversary, if you will). Our Patreon community helps us keep...
A newish kinkster live in an area with a local kink community they’re not comfortable being part of and driving to another area isn’t an option. Here’s the question: What do I do when...
BDSM Questions / Episodes / Kink Community
by Kayla Lords · Published September 9, 2024 · Last modified September 6, 2024
This week, a kinkster wants to get back into their local community but wants to avoid someone who seems to be an unsafe kinkster. Note: Content warning for brief mention of suicide, abusive behavior,...
BDSM Questions / Episodes / Kink Community
by Kayla Lords · Published April 15, 2024 · Last modified April 11, 2024
A kinkster feels like they’re the only monogamous person in their local kink community, and it’s really bothering them. Here’s the question: I recently got involved with a local kink community, although I’ve been...
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