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Q&A: How Do I Get Out of My Head During Sex?

This week, a submissive can’t stop worrying about her partner’s previous sexual experience but her Dominant also worries he’s not giving her big enough orgasms. Here’s the question: My boyfriend and I have been...

episode 427 of the Loving BDSM podcast - a BDSM reddit response episode

BDSM Reddit Response

This week, we could use a cathartic rant or two, so we’re responding to the BDSM side of Reddit! In this episode: Join our kinky community during the 2025 Patreon Membership Drive and get...

episode 426 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Obedience in Power Exchange

Obedience is a necessary part of submission, but it’s not experienced the same by all submissives – or their Dominant partners. In this episode: Patreon Membership Drive is still going on! Definition of obedience:...

Q&A episode

Q&A: How Do We Maintain Our D/s Dynamic?

A Dominant wants to support their submissive but they don’t know how to do that and maintain their D/s dynamic. Here’s the question: My wife has voiced interest in kink play. She is submissive...

episode 425 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Reconnecting With Our Kinky Identities

This week, we’re talking about the early days of reconnecting with our kinky selves – what it’s been like so far, how we got here, and more. In this episode: Join us this Friday,...

Q&A episode

Q&A: Am I Really Submissive?

In this week’s episode, their partner is willing to top them but not be their Dominant. They also have conflicted feelings about their submission leading them to wonder if they’re really submissive at all....

episode 424 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Getting Our D/s Life Back in 2025

Taking a couple of weeks off was very good for us. It allowed us to rest and chill, but we also reflected on the state of our power exchange. We talked about what we...