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Loving BDSM mini episode 35 on funishment basics

Minisode 35: Funishment Basics

We recently did a longer podcast episode on funishment. For those who want the Tl;dr, here are five tips and things to know about funishment if you’re trying it for the first time. A...

Kinky Experiences That Aren’t Subspace

Subspace, for some people, is the pinnacle of a kink scene. It’s the ultimate sign of a mind-blowing (or mind-altering) experience. And while subspace can be an amazing moment for many people, it’s not...

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5 Signs You’re in Subfrenzy | 30 Days of D/s

We’ve talked a LOT about subfrenzy around here. For good reason: when in the throes of it, submissives can put themselves in dangerous situations or misread reality. Sometimes it’s harmless, and a submissive is...

episode 282 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Kinksters React to Vanilla Relationship Reddit

Consider this another experiment. We enjoy doing the BDSM Reddit reactions, but we wondered what it would be like to react to vanilla relationship questions from Reddit. Spoiler alert: there’s no major change in...

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Our Favorite Vibrators for Forced Orgasms

Disclosure: Affiliate links are included throughout this post. That means if you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission. This helps us continue to make content and also fuels...

Loving BDSM mini podcast episode 33 on face slapping

Minisode 33: Face Slapping

In this week’s minisode, we’re discussing a favorite kink of ours: face slapping! If you’re new to it and want to explore with a partner, these are a few quick tips to keep in...

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What is Orgasm Control? | 30 Days of D/s

Beyond “one of our [JB and Kayla] favorite ways to play with kink,” orgasm control is exactly as labeled: yielding control of one’s orgasms to someone else. In power exchange this often looks like...