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episode 403 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Radical Honesty in Power Exchange

A moment when Kayla admitted wrongdoing has us thinking about the concept of “radical honesty” which potentially has a deeper meaning for kinksters in general. In this episode Register for the free and online...

episode 401 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Task Creep in Power Exchange

We’ve experienced “task creep” – the act of taking on tasks/routines that weren’t specifically negotiated. Thankfully for us, we figured it out quickly and worked it out in a quick conversation. But like job...

episode 399 of the Loving BDSM podcast

BDSM Reddit Response

We’re one week away from our 400th episode, so we’re starting the celebration early with a BDSM Reddit response episode! In this episode: Ask your questions for our Monday episodes. We’re celebrating 10,000 subscribers...

episode 398 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Over Communication in Power Exchange

Most kinksters aren’t communicating too much, but some of us (like Kayla) could be, so let’s talk about it. In this episode: We need your questions for our Monday episodes. The most common issue...

Q&A episode

Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?

A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...

episode 397 of the Loving BDSM podcast

Submission With Control Issues

We joke about Kayla’s control issues, but they’re definitely a thing we both have to navigate in our power exchange. In this episode: We joke about Kayla’s control issues all the time.  The stereotype...