Q&A: How Do I Handle Having a Bad Local Community?
A newish kinkster live in an area with a local kink community they’re not comfortable being part of and driving to another area isn’t an option. Here’s the question: What do I do when...
A newish kinkster live in an area with a local kink community they’re not comfortable being part of and driving to another area isn’t an option. Here’s the question: What do I do when...
Communication / Dominant / Episodes
by Kayla Lords · Published November 1, 2024 · Last modified October 31, 2024
We didn’t know where this would go before we started other than saying, “Yes, Doms need to communicate effectively, too.” (Obviously.) JB shares his experiences as a Dom who has struggled to communicate in...
BDSM Questions / D/s Relationships / Episodes
by Kayla Lords · Published October 28, 2024 · Last modified October 27, 2024
In this week’s episode, a submissive wants to bring D/s out of the bedroom, but their Dom doesn’t seem motivated to try. Here’s the question: My husband (33m) and I (34f) have been together...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 25, 2024 · Last modified October 24, 2024
You’ve probably heard of new relationship energy (NRE) but we’re more interested in the idea of old relationship energy. So let’s talk about it. In this episode We’re celebrating the Kinkery’s 4th anniversary with...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 18, 2024 · Last modified October 17, 2024
We’re back and coming in hot with a BDSM Reddit response/reaction episode! In this episode: This week’s episode is sponsored by Flure, a welcome, inclusive, and kink-friendly dating app. There’s no episode next Monday....
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