How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026

by Kayla Lords · Published December 5, 2025 · Updated December 4, 2025

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This week, we’re looking forward to 2026 to how to achieve some of the kink goals a lot of kinksters have (including us!). As always, you don’t have to wait for an arbitrary date to work towards new goals.

In this episode:

We actually have a plan for the month of December before we take our two week break for Christmas and New Year’s
Setting goals or getting ready to start a new plan doesn’t have to wait until the New Year
Taking care of yourself
- Doctor?
- Therapy?
- Doing the un-fun but necessary things?
Figuring out yourself
- Single or in a relationship
- Workshops, munches, kink conventions
- Workbooks like 30 Days of D/s (Submissive Guide also has great workbooks for submissives)
- Tongue Tied by Stella Harris
Reconnecting in your power exchange
- Take it slowly
- Make conversation a priority
- Set a relationship goal
- Make sure you’re in the right dynamic for both of you
- Obedience app
Learning new kinks
- Read, listen, watch
- Seek out workshops – online or in-person
- Watch demos – online or in-person
  - Both are even better if there’s a chance to ask questions or get hands on practice
Our goals