Where to Find a Dominant or Submissive Partner | Back to Basics Series
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We’ve been getting the same type of question recently…Where do I find a Dom? How do I find a submissive? So let’s talk about it this week.
In this episode:
- Thanks to Flure for sponsoring this week’s episode. If you want a kink-friendly, pleasure-focused dating app experience, check out Flure!
- We started this series on the premise that we’re going to talk about the basics of D/s from the perspective of already having a partner. But then a lot of people asked (as they often do), “Where do I even meet someone?” And this episode was born.
- Kinky people are everywhere, especially online. Wherever people gather, you can find a kinky person.
- Social media platforms.
- Dating apps – like Flure, but any dating app.
- There are kink specific apps out there.
- Fetlife, Fetish.com, and other kink community platforms
- In-person kinky spaces: munches, workshops, etc
- Old-fashioned set-ups from friends – does your kinky bestie know someone?
- It takes time to meet people, and you may need to be willing to talk to strangers – so keep that in mind.
- Anyone can pretend to be anything, so taking your time, vetting them as best as possible, and be willing to shut things down if something feels off are all important.
Links from the episode:
Finding the Right D/s Partner for You (episode 23)
On Meeting New People and Finding Your Tribe (episode 119)
7 Things to Consider When Meeting New People in the Kink Community (blog post)
Vetting a New Partner (minisode 17)
When is the Right Time to Meet in Person? (Q&A episode)
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