What Do I Do When My Dominant Wants Something Silly?

by Kayla Lords · Published November 27, 2023 · Updated November 26, 2023

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In this week’s Q&A episode, a submissive can’t wrap their mind around the kinky scene their Dom wants.

Here’s the question:

What to do when your Dom brings up a kink that is not particularly Dom-ish?

I’ve been married for more than a decade to my Dom. He has recently brought up idea(s) that are silly (not particularly harmful or objective and not submissive for him just..silly). They just don’t reinforce his role as the Dom.

At least they don’t fit my image of my Dom in my own head. I’m trying to wrap my brain around it. I have no problem with the silly scenes. They are just that…silly….and they don’t reinforce the dom/sub relationship.

Listen to the episode to find out our thoughts on this one.