Self-Preservation

by Kayla Lords · Published March 26, 2021 · Updated March 25, 2021

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This week’s episode is a bit of a rant based on things we’ve seen in the online kink community. Every time the issues come up, we (I) think, “Please have a sense of self-preservation!” Risk-assessment, understanding your inherent value as a human, and not bowing to pressure to “prove” how kinky you are all part of this conversation.

In this episode

This week’s episode is sponsored by Pink Kink Podcast!
This conversation is an intersection of a lot of topic swe’ve covered in the past: fantasy vs. reality, risk and safety, red flags, patience
Too many of us think we have to “prove” ourselves in a way that puts us in danger and/or rejects our own needs.
What you need to prove is your integrity, honesty, consent, respect, etc.
What you don’t need to prove that you’re a “real” kinkster.

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