Reflecting On Our Early BDSM and D/s Experiences

by Kayla Lords · Published February 8, 2019 · Updated February 9, 2019

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A big thank you to our kinky patron, Cdc, for this week’s topic. We were asked a series of questions about things we used to think or believe about BDSM and D/s, as well as how we realized it was a thing we needed. We discovered our need and love of BDSM and D/s at completely different times and in separate ways, But the one thing that remains true is that the things you believe in the beginning usually don’t last, as you learn and grow. Looking back on the early days, it’s fun to see how far we’ve come.

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This week’s topic is straight from one of our kinky patrons on Patreon. Thank you CDC for suggesting it and giving us a bunch of questions that definitely got us thinking.
What is something you wish you would have known before beginning BDSM and/or a D/s relationship?
What is something that shocked you, if there was, or worried you about BDSM or a D/s relationship after beginning?
What was the key event or idea that helped you to understand that BDSM was a “thing” for you and that you wanted to actively pursue?
How did you come to realize that prior relationships or ways of being were not adequate and that you needed something more?