Mentors and Protectors in BDSM LB118

by Kayla Lords · Published February 9, 2018 · Updated February 10, 2019

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This week we’re talking about BDSM mentors and protectors: what they are, whether they’re necessary, and what to consider if you choose to find one or become one.

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We discussed protectors with Pixie and Andrew on Kink Craft (several months ago) but we wanted to elaborate on our own episode and look at both mentors and protectors.
A mentor is different from a protector
A mentor guides and teaches. Can be for Dom or sub
A protector is kind of a Dom-light without the full responsibility of a D/s agreement
There are arguments for and against either
Definitely not required
It must be consensual, and you must have parameters and boundaries.
Choosing a mentor or protector is a lot like choosing a partner – compatibility, communication, a certain amount of trust and faith