Coasting in Your D/s Relationship LB097

by Kayla Lords · Published August 25, 2017 · Updated February 10, 2019

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In episode 97, we bare our souls a bit to share how we started coasting along in our D/s relationship only to find we’d coasted in separate directions. We caught it in time, but not everyone does. Hopefully, our struggles with not paying enough attention will help someone else help your own D/s relationship.

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We coasted through our relationship for several weeks and drifted apart on a D/s level.
Both of us had things on our mind but neither talked about it.
We were both dissatisfied with what we were doing and not doing – and neither of us talked about it.
Nothing major happened, we just let things ride because it seemed easier or because we were worried about stressing the other one out.
The fix has been being more mindful of how we behave plus long conversations, plans for changes, and time to implement them.