Minisode 22: How to Actually Prove Yourself in D/s
Spend any amount of time online or in some local kink communities, and you’ll come across someone with an opinion of what makes you a “real” kinkster. Or someone who devises ridiculous hoops to...
Spend any amount of time online or in some local kink communities, and you’ll come across someone with an opinion of what makes you a “real” kinkster. Or someone who devises ridiculous hoops to...
30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published June 21, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
Limits in kink are the things you won’t do — for a variety of reasons. They’re an important part of the negotiation process for your power exchange and your kinky fuckery. While it’s fun...
30 Days of D/s / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published June 14, 2021 · Last modified April 25, 2022
Let me let you in on an uncomfortable fact about power exchange, kink, and BDSM: It won’t live up to the fantasy you create in your mind. Like every other part of life, it’s...
You don’t have to be a service submissive to perform an act of service. You don’t even need to be submissive. Outside of a negotiated and consensual agreement, “acts of service” are simply how...
Empathy might seem like a new buzzword, but it’s an important factor in how we all relate to one another as humans. Expressing even small amounts of empathy makes for better interactions and relationships...
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