Miniside 23: BDSM Checklists
BDSM checklists are great for figuring out what kinks you want to try, what you don’t want, and what you’re not sure about. Because they get recommended so often (especially to newer kinksters), we...
Category: D/s Relationships
How to Know When It’s Time to Break Up
We want everyone to have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. But we also know that not every relationship is meant to last. Staying in one that doesn’t serve you or the other person doesn’t...
Minisode 22: How to Actually Prove Yourself in D/s
Spend any amount of time online or in some local kink communities, and you’ll come across someone with an opinion of what makes you a “real” kinkster. Or someone who devises ridiculous hoops to...
What You Need to Know About Limits in BDSM | 30 Days of D/s
Limits in kink are the things you won’t do — for a variety of reasons. They’re an important part of the negotiation process for your power exchange and your kinky fuckery. While it’s fun...
How to Handle Negative Emotions in Your Power Exchange | 30 Days of D/s
Let me let you in on an uncomfortable fact about power exchange, kink, and BDSM: It won’t live up to the fantasy you create in your mind. Like every other part of life, it’s...
