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It’s time for the next video in our new series of “First Times.” This episode was chosen by our proud crickets over on Patreon! If you want to know about these videos sooner rather...

Quick content note: While we do not go into details about abuse, trauma, or addiction, it does get mentioned in the episode a few times.  Several weeks ago we were tagged in a conversation...

Do you wonder whether you’re a submissive or a bottom? Has someone told you that you’re more one than the other? This is such a tricky question because, like all things, the answer is...

“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too...

Since this episode goes live on Valentine’s Day 2020, we thought it was time to talk about love as it relates to D/s relationships. We’re not offering tips or objective information. These are our...

I don’t know if “libido” is the correct word (a thing I saw from a sex educator recently indicated it might not be) but I think it’s a term most of us recognize and...

It’s the month of love and lust, so we’ve got sex on the brain. This topic comes from comments and questions we see all the time. “Can I do this sex act to my...

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I’ll admit this question was a first for me, but when I read it, I understood why someone might wonder: My partner and I fully enjoy our D/s relationship and power exchange. We feel...

Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal...